wedding followed by live with her mother-in-law, mother-in-law help with childcare, at ordinary times also get along well, I go to work during the day, and her mother-in-law at home taking care of grandchildren, comes back from work in the evening I will play with your child, mother cook a meal, after dinner I continue to take the child, or to accompany children play with toys, or to teach children to read picture books, memorize tang poetry.
but in the long run, the mother-in-law will always love to complain about my lazy, said "all don't know wash bowl" for a while, a while said "so dirty mop the floor all don't know", a while said "your husband pile of a pile of clothes don't wash", and so on.I said I have to accompany children to play, he also need someone to accompany, mother-in-law said you can't let him play for a while, home so many things you don't know how to do it.
but I am also very grievance, having to work during the day, come back from work already very tired, but also play with children, to teach children to learn something, and that some household chores are not original mother-in-law doing well, I sometimes help to do it, didn't do a few times will be gossiping and her mother-in-law, said I was lazy.
and then one day, my mother to come see us in the home, the mother-in-law habitual chewing on me again, and said I was lazy.My mother and said a few words below:
your son go to work, my daughter is at work, work hard, why you don't have to do something, son home my daughter will have to do anything?Is your son married servants or partner?
my daughter came home basic child is she in the belt, child is so small, love mother stick together, mother also should spend more time with children, with children, to teach children are busy doing things, how can you said she lazy?
daughter-in-law is not your son's mom, don't expect her to like you to take care of your son, daughter-in-law, will regard him as her husband, don't take him when his son, two people are equal, to take care of each other.
we are ordinary people, your son is not sate the leadership of the elite, didn't you think so great.He married to my daughter is not my daughter looking for your home, want to cherish the daughter-in-law.
no daughter, born to work for husband's family, to marry into your family because she love your son, your son also loved her, and marriage is to take care of each other, each other pay, you should have more education your son, let him do more housework, instead of always complaining about her daughter-in-law.
we can't always protect their children, elder children others out of their own.Son can accompany you through life's not you, but your son, so please don't speak ill of his wife and your son in front, you do so, will only damage the affection between them and let them senseless quarrel, fight to the end, it is a divorce, because if you complain about the divorce, it'll be up your responsibility.
finish listen to mother's these words, mother-in-law without saying a word, the second day also didn't eat, don't say I'm lazy again later.But I also try to do more housework after go home, the family mutual understanding, mutual understanding, HeHeMuMu is not very good?
deep eu - emotional scalpel, dare to anatomical!
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